Everyone wants to believe the myth of control. We believe we are in control of our lives, until something happens and we’re not.
Turns out, the people in our lives who have “been there and done that” know what they're talking about. With every token of advice in Proverbs 4, the father basically reminds his son, “listen to me because I love you and I've been there.”
We receive a wealth of wisdom by listening to the people God places in our lives. We all need wise people in our lives. Wisdom comes in many forms: words from a parent, grandparent, Fuse group leader, mentor, or friend. Older, godly people can offer the gift of perspective communicated in love.
There are those who are wicked who will attempt to deceive and derail us with their advice, but if we heed the words of the wise, we will be successful. This is why the father warns his son to be selective with who he listens to.
All advice is not created equal. Value the words of those who love Jesus and love you. Let their words carry more weight.
We mature in our faith the same way we mature in life. We learn from those who go before us. Then, we act in accordance to their advice, guarding our hearts, guarding our mouths, keeping focused on what’s ahead, and not losing focus. And as we grow, pass the same wisdom we’ve received on to others. And before we know it, we’re leading others in love just as we were led.
Reflect: |
| | A Father's Wise Instruction |
| Proverbs 4:1 | Hear, ye children, the instruction of a father, and attend to know understanding. |
Proverbs 4:2 | For I give you good doctrine, forsake ye not my law. |
Proverbs 4:3 | For I was my father's son, tender and only beloved in the sight of my mother. |
Proverbs 4:4 | He taught me also, and said unto me, Let thine heart retain my words: keep my commandments, and live. |
Proverbs 4:5 | Get wisdom, get understanding: forget it not; neither decline from the words of my mouth. |
Proverbs 4:6 | Forsake her not, and she shall preserve thee: love her, and she shall keep thee. |
Proverbs 4:7 | Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding. |
Proverbs 4:8 | Exalt her, and she shall promote thee: she shall bring thee to honour, when thou dost embrace her. |
Proverbs 4:9 | She shall give to thine head an ornament of grace: a crown of glory shall she deliver to thee. |
Proverbs 4:10 | Hear, O my son, and receive my sayings; and the years of thy life shall be many. |
Proverbs 4:11 | I have taught thee in the way of wisdom; I have led thee in right paths. |
Proverbs 4:12 | When thou goest, thy steps shall not be straitened; and when thou runnest, thou shalt not stumble. |
Proverbs 4:13 | Take fast hold of instruction; let her not go: keep her; for she is thy life. |
Proverbs 4:14 | Enter not into the path of the wicked, and go not in the way of evil men. |
Proverbs 4:15 | Avoid it, pass not by it, turn from it, and pass away. |
Proverbs 4:16 | For they sleep not, except they have done mischief; and their sleep is taken away, unless they cause some to fall. |
Proverbs 4:17 | For they eat the bread of wickedness, and drink the wine of violence. |
Proverbs 4:18 | But the path of the just is as the shining light, that shineth more and more unto the perfect day. |
Proverbs 4:19 | The way of the wicked is as darkness: they know not at what they stumble. |
Proverbs 4:20 | My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings. |
Proverbs 4:21 | Let them not depart from thine eyes; keep them in the midst of thine heart. |
Proverbs 4:22 | For they are life unto those that find them, and health to all their flesh. |
Proverbs 4:23 | Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. |
Proverbs 4:24 | Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee. |
Proverbs 4:25 | Let thine eyes look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee. |
Proverbs 4:26 | Ponder the path of thy feet, and let all thy ways be established. |
Proverbs 4:27 | Turn not to the right hand nor to the left: remove thy foot from evil.
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